Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Bay Area Adventures

So... Sean & I decided it was time for a much needed last getaway before we have the responsibility of another life. On Thursday we headed up to the Bay Area where we were to stay with Sean's grandparents in Hayward, and then spend a few days in the City of San Francisco!

The very first day we stopped off in Monteray to visit Cannery Row and the Aquarium. We had a lot of fun, and for being thirty-five weeks pregnant I did pretty well walking around for parking four blocks away and spending about three hours on foot touring the place! Here is some footage I got of the big fish tank at the Aquarium:

And a few pictures from our visit:






We made it up to Hayward just in time for dinner that night where we were welcomed into Sean's grandparents home with a delicious meal, lasagna and artichokes! Artichokes are pretty much my favorite food, and these ones were SO good! We had a very nice time visiting with his grandparents over dinner that night, and got all our stuff settled in for the five days we would be staying. On Friday we stayed in Hayward. Sean drove me around the town a bit and showed me where he grew up. I made him stand out in front of the house he grew up in so I could get this picture:

He also took me to this little shop called the "Ice Creamery" which was one of his favorite eateries as a child. I was kind of sad for him, because we ate lunch there and it wasn't as good as he remembered. He didn't really care for his food, especially the clam chowder- it looked horrible, and on top of that we got the worst service ever. By the time we were done with our lunch we were too full to even try the Ice Cream, although I'm sure that would have been good seeing it is their specialty. We also went to the local... and very ghetto... mall that day, in search of a new pair of Crocs for me as my little swollen feet were hurting from my tennis shoes being too tight, and I knew I wouldn't be able to make it a whole day in the City with them! I was finally successful in finding what I needed after a lot of looking.

Saturday morning we got up and headed down to the Bart station to catch a train into San Francisco.



I was a little scared about taking the Bart under the Bay... I was so worried we'd get stuck under there somehow. But then I just kept thinking about labor and childbirth and all that I will be going through in less than five weeks, and we were at our first stop in the city. We had a great day in the city, and I was so glad I bought my Crocs because there was only one time, after we walked six long blocks and one of them uphill where my feet started to hurt. I did really well walking around the City that day- even though I probably did more walking than what was good for me. We started off our day at the Powell St. Station and hopped on the Cable Car to get down to Fisherman's Warf. We waited in line for about an hour just to get on the car... well Sean waited in line, while I took a tour of the Baby Gap!




We made it down to Fisherman's Warf where we spent some time checking out the shops and having lunch. We also stopped watched the Sea Lions at Pier 39!


I think the highlight of our whole time in San Francisco was the Bay Adventure Cruise we took with the Blue & Gold Fleet out of Pier 39. We spent an hour on a boat that took us around the bay. We went underneath the golden gate bridge, around Alcatraz, and then out to check out the Bay Bridge and saw some amazing views of the city. There was some educational narration on the tour about San Francisco, and specifically the parts we were seeing. I thought it was pretty well done, and not to cheesy! It was very cold and windy from the boat, but it was worth it for all that we got to experience. I was wearing shorts that day, and we had both forgotten our jackets. For the other parts of the day we were just fine, and not too cold... but it just gets really windy out on that boat!











After our little bay excursion, it was time for a six block walk over and up to Ghirardelli Square. We somehow ended up in the Ghirardelli Ice Cream Shop, where we found the most amazing Ice Cream I have ever tasted. It was Ghirardelli's Rocky Road in a Chocolate Dipped Waffle Cone.

We ended our day in San Francisco with one more trip back to Powell Station on the Cable Car, and then hopped on the Bart for our trip to back to Hayward in time for dinner. I cooked Sean one of his favorite meals- Penne Pasta with Sundried Tomato Alfredo sauce, Caesar Salad, and Garlic Bread! After that we were both pretty tired and we're very glad that we had planned to rest a day before venturing back into the city!

We spent Father's Day at "home" in Hayward with Sean's Grandparents. There is this Italian style restaurant called Banchero's that they frequent for special occasions. I had heard all about it, and how it is a family tradition to take the whole family there every Mother's Day. But since this was my first visit up to the area, Sean's grandparents treated us to lunch there. The food was great, but mostly it was neat to get a little glimpse into the family traditions! I really enjoy Sean's grandparents. I especially enjoy listening to all the great stories that his grandpa tells about the kids growing up! We had a really nice time just resting on Sunday and visiting with them. We also went back over to Sean's old neighborhood and visited a family friend from Sean's childhood.

On Monday we decided to brave San Francisco again. Although this time with much less success. Word to the wise: SAN FRANCISCO IS CLOSED ON MONDAY! Seriously... We had planned to set off into the City an hour earlier than our Saturday trip. This is because we knew we'd be fighting the commuters for a seat on the Bart to get home if we left any later than 4:00pm. So we arrived at the Powell St. Station at about 9:20am. This time however I noticed an exit into this mall, that I just had to check out. It was six stories, and I'd never seen anything like it!

We ventured into one or two shops and then just rode the escalators up to the top and back, just for kicks. Then we decided we should be on our way, because we had a lot to see and not too much time to see it in. Since our destinations were quite far between, I used the online trip planner provided by Muni. It wrote down where we were going, which busses to take, where the bus stops were, and how often the bus came by each stop. The trip planner let me select based on my preferences of less walking time over a shorter bus route, and according to the selections made online we shouldn't have had to walk more than 1/8 of a mile at any given stop to get to our destination. The whole bus thing went ALL wrong! First off, the stops it told us to get off on were much further than 1/8 of a mile from our destination- and the worst part is that there were ones two or three stops prior that were MUCH closer to where we needed to go. The very first bus of the day we boarded... bus #5... broke down on us before it even got to the next stop. It turned out the power lines had gone down for that block and they couldn't get them up and running for a while. And since I didn't have my laptop or internet access in the City it was impossible for me to go online and figure out a new route!

About an hour later they had finally fixed the broken down bus, and we re-boarded to head over to the Conservatory of Flowers at Golden Gate Park. This is one of those bus stops that we should have been told to get off about four exits earlier, as we ended up walking probably over a mile in the park just to get the conservatory. When we got there, we were disappointed to find out that it was CLOSED on Mondays! We did however get lots of pretty pics from the outside!




Now the problem with the fact that the bus gave us the wrong stop to get off at, means that the route to exit that location is also in the same place as where we originally got off. This would mean another mile walk back to the bus stop to get on the correct bus. We decided to go out to the stop where we should have originally gotten off- only to find that the bus line we needed to get to our next destination didn't depart from that stop. At least there was a map at that one, because we were able to figure out where we needed to go, even though it required three line transfers. By now its about 12:30pm and we still haven't done anything other than walk around and ride on busses. We finally have reached our next destination, The Exploratorium! Well the area to get to the entrance happened to be under construction, so there were signs routing us around the building to enter on the other side. After about five minutes of walking we saw a sign that said "Entrance... 250 meters ahead". After commenting that we would be walking the distance of two and a half football fields, I made a joke about this being closed on Monday's too. Well much to my chagrin, that happened to be just the case! I'm not sure why I never checked the operating hours of these attractions, I guess I just assumed they would be open on a Monday, especially since most schools had let out and being the beginning of summer I would expect an infulx of tourists! It was rather disappointing that our day had started off like this, but at that point I was amused and we were both in good spirits. We had gotten good exercise, gotten to see some beautiful quiet scenery away from the rush of the city, and best of all we had gotten to enjoy each others company! Too many things had gone wrong that day, that it became humorous and we weren't going to let it ruin or trip! On the plus side, we did save ourselves a combined total of $40 in admission to both attractions.




Thankfully, the bus stop for this one was close. It turned out we could really walk through the area that was "under construction", as that construction was just to the side and all fenced off. I'm not sure why the signs were so misleading- but I'm guessing they didn't want a whole lot of foot traffic going in and out. We got on our next bus and headed back over to Ghiradelli Square. Of course, our stop never came up- and we ended up going a few blocks past so we jumped off the bus as soon as we realized and walked back the rest of the way. Sean wanted Ice Cream again, I was pretty cold and opted for some Hot Cocoa!

After resting a bit we decided to continue the journey on foot down to Fisherman's Warf to get some lunch and take a quick tour of the Boudin Factory. You see we had planned this tour for Saturday on our first trip over, but it ended up being closed due to some private party. The tour wasn't anything special, it was self guided and as you can imagine it smelled amazing as they were baking the frest baked bread! We ended up taking home a very cute little loaf, shaped into a turtle! And we got some fun pictures as well.







It was getting to be close to 4:00pm and being quite pregnant it was important to make sure I was able to get a seat for the trip back across the bay. So we picked up a little gift for our neice, Eliann and then headed over to the F-Line Streetcar stop to take us to the Embarcadero Bart Station. We were one of the first ones in line for the next car, but much to my disappointment it pulled up past where the line had formed and all the people in the back of the line pushed their way through to the opening. The car was too full and there was no more room. The streetcar operator told us we would have to wait for the next one. After a lot of walking, and a lot of standing and waiting I was really needing to sit down- but I didn't want to risk losing our place in line. So we stood excatly where the last cars doors had opened and waited another fifteen minutes for the next car. By this time a long line had formed behind us, there had to have been atleast sixty eighty people! Well the next car pulls up to a different place than we were all standing and its a mad dash as the doors open. We fight our way inside and get crammed among the car in standing room only. I had to hold on to the rail with one hand and guard my pockets with the other... in a crowed that tight it would have been way to easy to get pick-pocketed. Oh well, at least we were finally on our way out of San Francisco...

Or at least so we thought! When we arrived to the Bart station it seemed we were early enough to beat the mass rush of commuters that fill the downtown stations as they end their workdays. However the green line train which took us back to Hayward happened to be delayed somehow, and had to be taken off the tracks. The next train didn't get to the station until about 5:20pm, which means that it had stopped at all the other downtown locations and picked up commuters already off of work. We were at the last station before the train would cross under the bay, leaving the city. It was packed just as tightly as Streetcar, but I was so ready to be home I didn't care. I would stand the whole way if I had to. The operator announces to please give up your seat for the elderly, disabled or pregnant- but it was too crowded for anyone to even notice that I was pregnant, and even if they did I doubt they would care. Everyone seemed annoyed to be there and anxious to get to where they were going. I guess the Bart has gotten a lot more crowded since the cost of fuel has skyrocketed. Thankfully I only had to ride the first five minutes standing up, as we approached the first stop in Oakland the two people sitting directly infront of us got up to leave and we quickly snatched their seats for the rest of the way home! We made it back safe and sound by 6:00pm. It sure wasn't the day we planned, but it was an adventure none the less. And we did enjoy each others company through the whole ordeal!

The next morning we got up, packed our stuff and headed home to Atascadero! And it only took us about three hours to get back, the drive home was a lot less eventful than our Monday in San Francisco. It was sure nice to sleep in my own bed again... and after all that, I'm really thankful that Sean has one more day off of work to recover from our vacation! With just about a month left before the baby arrives, I'm really glad we decided to get away for a few days!

Saturday, June 7, 2008

Congrats Jill!

WELCOME MADISON & ABIGAIL!

So my friend Jillian just gave birth to her twin girls! She has an amazing birth story, which is posted on her blog ... and now two brand new beautiful babies at home!

Monday, May 26, 2008

One Year Anniversary

Sean,
I can't believe its already been a whole year since we said "I Do". We started our lives together in a beautiful apartment in Aliso Viejo, we were blessed to be able to work for the same company- and carpool to work & have lunch together every day! We had the same work schedules, and we enjoyed our weekends at home (or on the road) together! Now we are soon to become a family of three... our lives have changed drastically in the past few months, and even more to come in just eight short weeks! Even though we don't have our pretty apartment, and we are living in my parents garage, there is no where else I'd rather be- because you are here with me! I know this time of transition brings a lot of unknowns, but soon enough we will have steady income again and a place of our own. We have everything we need, a place to sleep, food to eat, and each other. I know that in time we will have the right jobs, and the right place to live. It is so nice for me to have this break at the end of my pregnancy to focus on the baby, and preparing for motherhood. I appreciate everything you are doing to make that possible- and your supportiveness of my need to be home with the baby in the beginning. I'm sorry that you have to work for so much less than you are worth right now, while we figure this all out. But I love that everyday you get up and go without complaining because you want to provide for us. I appreciate how you take care of me when you get home, even though you are tired from a long days work. They say that the first year of marriage is the hardest, and I sure hope thats the truth... because looking back at this year, its not very hard being married to you! Thank you for being a wonderful, loving, supportive husband. I love you with all my heart, and I look forward to spending the rest of my life with you! Happy One Year Anniversary...
Love Always,
Sarah

A Year Ago Today....

Monday, May 19, 2008

So Guess What...

I'm pregnant!!! This may not come as a shock to you if you regularly read my blog. But we were amused to find that out today when I had to go take a pregnancy test.

Since we've moved up to the Central Coast, I've had trouble finding a job. I have applied all over the place, but it seems to me that most employers aren't willing to hire someone when they will have to take a 6-10 week leave of absence within their first 90 days of employment. Additionally, my insurance from my job in Orange County was an HMO with no participating providers on the Central Coast. This means a trip to the OC every two weeks for a doctors appointment, and then living down there for a month (without my husband) while we await baby's arrival. So in an effort to avoid all the traveling, I applied for Medi-Cal so I could get a doctor up here and not have to go five hours away to have this baby.

I turned in my Medi-Cal application a few weeks ago, along with a ton of documentation they require to prove a lack of income and assets... I had been patiently awaiting an approval, when I got this letter in the mail from them saying they needed additional documentation. They need a birth certificate, marriage certificate, and verification that I was pregnant. Would the one inch stack of medical records documenting my entire pregnancy from my provider in OC do the trick? Nope. I had to go to one of their clinics and take a pregnancy test.

So after a short wait and leaving a urine sample for testing, a medical assistant brought us back to wait for the nurse practitioner. When she makes her way to the exam room, she congratulates us and informs us that we are expecting! (As if we had no clue...) So I sarcastically say, "really?, I'm shocked"... I guess she didn't pick up on the sarcasm because then she proceeded to try and calculate a due date for me by asking when my last period was. So I went along with it and said... "um, I think mid-October". She looks at me and says "Oh, my..." I am trying not to crack up, because I feel huge, and I think its obvious to most people now that I'm pregnant. I don't look like 7-8 months along... but I clearly have a "bump"- which I guess she didn't notice when she asked "Oh, so you knew you were pregnant". I informed her that I was almost 32 weeks along, and that we had just moved to the area from Orange County where I was receiving treatment previously. She was relieved to find out that I'd been going to the doctor the whole time! I was glad to find some humor in the hour that we wasted for me to go take a pregnancy test. But, at least I got my "pregnancy verification" so that I can finally show proof to Medi-Cal... and hopefully get an approval so that I can receive care locally!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

The last 11 weeks...

So I realize I haven't really updated (other than pictures) since my appointment at 20 weeks. I am now approaching the 31 week mark, and those of you who regularly stalk my blog are probably wondering If I dropped off the face of the planet. I don't know why, but I just haven't had the energy or motivation to want to sit down and write about all that has gone on. Just about everything in my life has changed, drastically. So just as a warning, this little update may not be so little. I've got 11 weeks to cover here people... happy reading!

I will start with the 24 week appointment, this is where we got all those great ultrasound pics and finally got some real confirmation that we are in fact having a boy, like for sure. I know they are never 100% accurate, but they showed us the umbilical cord on the screen (and highlighted the blood flow) so we could be certain that was not what we were seeing between the legs. Needless to say, I will be shocked if this baby turns out to be a girl. And I finally got to start buying a few outfits! I've been pretty good and haven't gone overboard. I only have about 6 things for him right now, and considering how much I love baby clothes I think I'm doing great in that department! I haven't even bought him any shoes yet... and don't get me started on the shoes, they are usually even a bigger weakness for me. Anyways, other than finding out he was a boy, they were able to complete the head-to-toe scan of the baby and check to make sure he was doing well, and was healthy and to look for any visable heart or birth defects. They were able to get some really good views of his little heart, and from what they could tell, everything looked good and healthy! He was still measuring about 7 days behind the due date, which concerned me some since I really don't want to have to wait an extra week to meet this little boy... but my doctor assured me that there is a 7-10 day margin of error on the ultrasounds and that he was pretty sure he had my dates correct. We were just very happy to see that he was doing well in there, and that they sent us home with a video of the session- it was great to be able to share with my family!

The day before this appointment... was our last day at work. That's right we quit our jobs! The weekend was spent packing, and loading up a UHAUL and starting a new journey. We made it up to the Central Coast on Sunday night where we were suppose to bunk with my parents for a week or two until we could find a place and get things settled on the job end of things. We had decided, with a baby on the way that we wanted to live closer to family. Sean really likes the small town life, and I like being close to my parents and my little sister... plus the cost of living up here is a lot less than in Orange County. Three bedroom houses rent for about the same as what we were paying for our one-bedroom apartment! There were finally a few decent job openings that looked promising, and we just both felt like it was time for a change- SO we moved! My whole job thing completely fell though, I ended up being in the final 4 candidates out of over 50 who applied and in the end they went with someone who had worked there before and already knew the job. So that turned out to be a disappointment at first, but looking back- probably a huge blessing in disguise. Sean's prospective jobs both still look very promising, but the hiring process is very long.. he's had to do written testing , physical agility testing, and oral interviews- with all that we still haven't heard anything except that they won't be making a decision until closer to when the job will be available. I am extremely proud of him for scoring in the top 5 on the written tests and passing the physical! We learned after we moved up here, that one of the jobs he applied for doesn't start until July or August, and the other is at the end of August, so in the mean time he took a job at Albertsons to pay the bills. We are still watching the job listings, and putting in applications when something good comes along... but mostly just waiting to hear back. I was never able to find employment, likely due to the fact with giving birth and all I would need to take a leave of absence within the first few months of employment. That's not usually so convenient for an employer, and when they have other qualified candidates who don't need to take leave... well... that makes it hard to get a job. It has been good for me to rest, and take it easy- especially over the last few weeks! I haven't been feeling as well and I think my body just needed a break. I also came across a business opportunity- which I won't really explain here- that I'm working on so that I might be able to stay home with the baby after he is born. I do feel more comfortable putting him in daycare up here (since I know the person I would be sending him too), but still if at all possible I'd like to be a work-at-home mommy and take care of my son! It's going great so far, and I'm working really hard to make my dream a reality!

As far as medical insurance goes, I stayed on my plan from work through Cobra. Unfortunately since it is an HMO I only have certain doctors I can see. I haven't heard the greatest things about the few that are here on the Central Coast that accept my health plan, and I absolutely LOVE the doctor I had in Orange County so I was planning to take the train down for my appointments and stay with relatives for the last few weeks of pregnancy so that I could deliver at Saddleback w/my doctor. So I took the train down for my 28 week appointment, which went well. The doctor got the results back from my glucose tolerance testing and it came back a 114- perfectly normal (the range they like to see is between 110-130) so that means that I did NOT develop gestational diabetes! A huge concern of mine going into the pregnancy overweight. I've only gained about 4 of the pounds back that I initially lost during in the first two trimesters and I seem to be holding there for the last four weeks. So I'm still about 12 lbs less than my pre-pregnancy weight- which I am happy with. My doctor would like to see my back up where I started (for the baby's sake) but as long as I'm eating enough, and eating healthy he's not going to be on my case for not gaining enough weight. I've worked really hard at staying healthy throughout the pregnancy and I am really glad that it all seems to be paying off! The doctor also checked to see how I was measuring, and turns out I'm right on pace for my due date of July 19th!

Up until about 29.5 weeks, I was having a great pregnancy. I really had nothing to complain about, and I think I was one of those that other pregnant women can't stand because they have spent their whole pregnancies feeling like crap. I didn't have morning sickness (at all), I wasn't uncomfortable, in pain, and best of all I even lost a few pounds.... I felt great! But all of the sudden at 29 weeks, I started to feel slightly uncomfortable! By the middle of the week I was in SO MUCH PAIN that I couldn't walk, sit down, stand up, change positions in bed... everything hurt to the point where I was in tears. I thought something was wrong- but I knew it wasn't labor because the pain was constant. To try and make a long story short, we ended up going to the ER twice- the first time I was only checked out by Labor & Delivery to make sure that I wasn't in labor and that I didn't have any infections... I was sent home and told to return if the pain persisted. The next day it was much worse, so 32 hours later we went back, they did a quick check in L & D again- but then took me back down to the actual ER to try and figure out what was causing all the pain. Six hours, an ultrasound, and a few IVs of really good stuff later they were able to determine that they baby had positioned himself head down, and had already dropped lower into my pelvic region in preparation for delivery. This is something that doesn't typically happen in a first pregnancy until about 36 weeks- but with mine in happened early and my body just wasn't prepared, which caused a great deal of pain. I told my husband I would not be doing this whole pregnancy thing again and that if our child was not be an only child all of his siblings would need to be adopted. I just don't understand HOW people who have had hard pregnancies go through it more than once. Three days later my body had adjusted and now I am feeling a lot better, but as bad as that hurt I don't even want to know what labor is going to be like. I am so thankful for epidurals and whoever discovered them- because I am counting on one to get me through the whole giving birth thing. Anyways, I think I can reconsider the "I'll never bear another child" decision when the time is right. But with all that drama, I kind of decided that maybe I want to think about getting a doctor up here and delivering locally, so now that is in the works- although I still have to travel to Orange County next week for my 32 week check-up!

Our one year anniversary is in less than two weeks! I can't believe its already been a whole year, it really doesn't feel like it. I'm gonna take this opportunity to say how much I love my husband and how thankful I am to have him in my life. Not only is he there for me day in and day out, but he was especially a trooper throughout the whole ER experience. After a very long day at work he stayed by my side for 6 hours straight (until 4:ooam) and refused to go out and get some rest in the car, even though I could tell he was exhausted! They just had a little (very uncomfortable looking) chair for him to sit in, while I got to rest with some really nice meds. Sean, THANK YOU for ALWAYS being there for me and taking such great care of me- I Love You!

For our anniversary, Sean and I were going to try to go on one of those weekend cruises down to Mexico, but apparently you can't get on a boat when your more than 24 weeks. You can fly until the last month, but cruise lines have this whole pregnancy discrimination thing going on... okay I know its not really discrimination- but it kind of sucks because like how many people actually go into labor at 24 weeks? I know it happens, but in most cases the doctors know ahead of time if you are at risk or not. But, I guess they just don't have the right medical equipment & staff on board to be okay just in case. So I was okay with it in the end, until I found out babies are FULL price. If I want to take my 6 month old child with me, (same size room, same size meals... since he's being fed from me) they would charge a full price fare! Because they have "entertainment for all ages" which is a load of dirty diaper if you ask me! How are they gonna keep my 6 month old entertained.. I'll have to pay EXTRA for an on board babysitter, so unless grandma & grandpa want some serious baby time I don't think we'll be going on any cruises anytime soon. We did however decide that we still want to do something special for our anniversary, and that we need one last little getaway before the baby is here. So we are going to take a trip to the Bay Area and spend a couple of days in San Francisco! It's not the cruise I was hoping for, but its still a vacation with my husband to celebrate our anniversary and savor some of our last moments as a twosome.

Well, there you have it! I actually blogged... now I'm off to my aqua aerobics class! 9 more weeks to go...

Monday, April 7, 2008

Ultrasound - 24 Weeks!

Here are the pics from our latest ultrasound!
I don't think he liked having his picture taken very much!

Thumb Sucker!

Profile Shot

Another one... this time you can see his little hand coming up to his mouth.

It's a BOY!

That's no umbilical cord!